The 7 HABITS of Highly Effective TEENS ( Pg 10-71)

Some people have stupid quotes. it means paradigm. paradigms are like glasses. if you want to delete paradigm in your brain, you need to be more serious and affirmative. First habit is ' BE PROACTIVE'. It has two languages. 'I'll try' , 'That's just the way i am' , 'There's nothing i can do' , 'I have to' , 'I can't ' , 'You ruined my day' these are 'Reactive language' and another part is 'Proactive language' such as I'll do it, 'I can do better than that' , 'let's look at all our options' , 'I choos to' , 'There's gotta be a way', 'I'm not going to let your bad mood rub off one me.' Author said 'Proactive language' is better than 'Reactive language' . If you want to be proactive person , you must use proactive language. I think 'Proactive' person is ' take responsibility for their choices' , ' think before they do that', always find a way to make it happen' and ' focus on things they can do something. Therefore, they will be success person. Also, author said being proactive really means two things such as 'can-do people' and 'No-can-do people.' I think that if i think can-do person, and i'm creative and persistent, it is amazing what i can accomplish. Now, i need it because i will go academic and need hard study. I think that i'm reactive person and no can do person now. I really want to change my mind and behavior. I will try to change my mind and behavior for my life. Actually i didn't read many pages last weekend, so this weekend i really tried to read many pages i was so hard. I realized that read book every day. I will have to do that.